Never Again
Have you ever dated someone and waited so long for them to commit or come around that you found yourself lost and confused when they finally told you “I need my space” or “Let’s just be friends?” It’s one thing to wait for your true love, but it’s another thing to put your life on hold for someone who’s already let go.
Knowing how long is too long really depends on the person, but everyone knows when they’ve had enough. One thing I’ve learned for sure is that we can’t sacrifice our lives and well being for someone who isn’t the least bit concerned about us. If we’re chasing after someone, obviously they’re running away from something – whether that’s commitment, relationships or something else. Hence, sometimes we just have to let them keep running.
Sometimes, it almost comes as a surprise when we realize the relationship is over because in the back of our minds we figured it would last for a long time or even forever. Months and years pass and we’re left asking ourselves, “Did I really waste all this time with this person?” That’s when reality sets in. Consequently, we end up feeling depressed, hurt, hopeless and even spiritually paralyzed. It’s hard and it hurts.
So, I encourage you my friend as you’re going through. It’s never too late to take back what someone else took from you and we have to speak life into our situations. Declare this with me and say, “Never Again.”
Never again.
You broke my heart, but not my spirit.
I let you take my happiness for awhile, but not anymore because I’m too pretty not to smile.
I feel so lonely and confused but thank God I’m never alone.
You hurt me so bad, but this too shall pass.
You made me cry but God will wipe the tears from my eyes.
I sacrificed so much for you but God will replenish.
Everything you took from me, God will restore back to me.
You diminished my trust in men, but thank God I still trust in the man above.
You controlled me with lies and manipulation, but God still controls my destination.
Right now it’s hard for me to see anything but me and you, but I still believe there will be a breakthrough.
Not anymore.
Never again.
No more waiting.
Never again.
